So let’s just be real for a second—I don’t map out our homeschool year very well… or honestly, at all.
I’ve always wanted to be the kind of mom who has a plan. You know, the one with a cute homeschool planner, a smooth schedule, and maybe even a color-coded wall calendar. But I’ve also always felt so overwhelmed by the idea of homeschool planning that I didn’t even know where to start.
And with four kids, a loud house, and all the everyday interruptions—from gardening to dishes to surprise field trips to the camper—it just hasn’t felt realistic to jump headfirst into structured homeschool planning.
That said, I want to grow in this area.
Not for the sake of being perfect, but because I’m craving more peace, more direction, and a little bit of margin to breathe.
I might not have a beautiful binder or a set-in-stone plan, but I do want to start with something that matters even more:
prayer and purpose.
Why Homeschool Planning Feels So Hard for Me
The truth is—I have four kids, all different ages, with different needs and interests. The minute I get into a groove, the season changes (literally and figuratively).
Life moves fast around here.
There are camper trips for my husband’s work.
We’ve got swimming lessons, Bible studies, homesteading tasks, and about a hundred other things that tug at our time.
And when something has to give?
It’s usually homeschool.
Rigid homeschool planning has just not worked for us. I’ve tried. I’ve printed out the fancy charts and bought the planners. And then I watched it all crumble by week three.
But I don’t want to give up.
I want to find a rhythm that actually works for us—a gentle homeschool planning approach that gives grace for sick days, slow days, or “everything-fell-apart” days.
A Gentle Homeschool Planning Approach I Want to Try
This year, I’m giving myself one quiet coffee date. Just me, my Bible, and maybe a journal. No big Pinterest planning party. Just a time to reflect.
What worked last year?
What flopped?
What lit my kids up with curiosity?
Instead of planning week by week (which makes my eye twitch), I’m thinking in seasons and themes—a gentler take on homeschool planning.
What do I want my kids to really learn this year?
What matters to our family?
Maybe it’s character. Maybe it’s simplicity. Maybe it’s something as specific as entrepreneurship or, let’s be honest, dinosaurs (again).
I want to make space for those things—the things that matter to us. Not someone else’s curriculum checklist. Just our family’s real, grace-filled growth.
My Simple Tools for Getting Started with Homeschool Planning
Here’s what I’m gathering to make this happen:
- A blank calendar or plain old sheet of paper – nothing fancy, just space to think.
- Sticky notes and highlighters – because life changes, and I need plans that can move.
- A margin week every 6–8 weeks – a built-in breather where we pause, clean up, catch up, or rest.
- A list of family values – things like connection, consistency, rest. That way, when I get lost in the weeds, I can go back to what actually matters.
All of this is part of a slower, more realistic homeschool planning system that doesn’t rely on me being perfect—just prayerful and present.
And most importantly?
I’m giving myself permission to change course.
Permission to Change Your Homeschool Planning Mid-Year
Here’s something I’ve had to learn the hard way:
Flexibility is not failure.
It’s actually one of the biggest blessings of homeschooling.
And God?
He’s not surprised when we pivot.
He often leads us to pivot.
He cares about our homeschool planning. About our kids. About the messy, honest, full-hearted work we’re doing.
So why not ask Him?
Invite Him into your homeschool planning—not just to make it go smoothly, but to give you peace, and wisdom for the next step.
One Step. One Idea. One Prayer at a Time.
You don’t have to be perfectly planned to have a beautiful homeschool year.
You don’t need a detailed checklist or a 10-month spreadsheet.
You just need a little direction, a little grace, and a whole lot of Jesus.
So that’s how I’m stepping into this new school year:
☕ One quiet moment
📝 One simple homeschool planning session
🙏 One prayer at a time
What about you, mama?
What part of homeschool planning feels hard for you right now?
What’s one small step you could try this week?
